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There's a term for people born in the early '80s who don't feel like a millennial or a Gen Xer. Here's everything we know about it.

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It's hard not fitting in.

If you feel sort of but not quite like a millennial, and sort of but not quite like a Gen Xer, take heart: You might just be a "xennial." That's a term for the "micro-generation" born between 1977 and 1985.

The term was coined in 2014 by Sarah Stankorb in Good Magazine. People have started talking about xennials again, with self-proclaimed members of this demographic waxing (read: tweeting) nostalgic about "Oregon Trail" and flip phones. Merriam-Webster even labeled "xennial" one of its "words we're watching."

Below, Business Insider has outlined the defining characteristics of xennials and how they're different from the generations that came before and after them.

Xennials are a "micro-generation" born between 1977 and 1985.

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This group has also been called the "Oregon Trail Generation," in reference to a computer game that was popular when they were growing up.

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Xennials were the first generation to grow up with household computers and have internet access. ("You've got mail!")

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Xennials are naturals at social media, though they grew up without Facebook, Twitter, or even MySpace.

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Source: GOOD Magazine

Many xennials didn't get their first cellphone until they were in their 20s. Instead, they had to call their friends' homes and talk to their parents first.

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Source: GOOD Magazine

By the time xennials were 20 years old, the music industry had changed completely. Instead of buying cassette tapes, you could download songs on Napster.

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Many xennials remember watching, and sometimes getting personally invested, in the OJ Simpson trial.

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Source: GOOD

While xennials recall a time before the internet, they spent their formative years on AOL chatting and emailing.

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Source: Mashable

Xennials aren't quite as cynical as the stereotypical Gen Xer but also aren't quite as optimistic as the stereotypical millennial.

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Source: Vogue

Xennials may have been hit hardest by the recession because of a combination of student-loan debt, job loss, and other factors.

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Sources: GOOD Magazine and CityLab

You can take a quiz from the Guardian to see whether you qualify as a xennial. There are questions about owning "New Kids on the Block" merchandise, making mix tapes, and remembering the advent of car phones.

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Shana was a correspondent for Insider, where she covered career development and workplace culture.In 2022, she published "Don't Call It Quits" to help professionals who feel stuck in their careers find greater happiness at work.Shana spearheads the HR Insider series, for which she's interviewed talent chiefs at Microsoft and Goldman Sachs, shared tips from an ex-Googler on knowing when to change jobs, and demystified the hiring process at Salesforce. She regularly publishes news analysis; past topics have included burnout among US workers, gender and racial dynamics within HR, and the hybrid workplace.She has moderated programs at Chief and the Harvard Business School Club of New York and has appeared on Cheddar and Bold TV.Before beginning her career in journalism, Shana studied English and psychology at Brandeis University and received her master's degree in English literature from Columbia University.
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