When it comes to weddings, there are certain nearly universally understood rules, like not wearing white if you aren't the bride. But some people think one wedding coordinator took things a hair too far with a list of "rules and regulations."
The guidelines, which were first posted in r/ChoosingBeggars by Redditor laika_cat, include such requests as "DO NOT TALK TO THE BRIDE AT ALL" and "do not have a full face of makeup."
Here's the list, which was emailed to guests, per the Reddit post:
"Please arrive 15-30 minutes early.
Please DO NOT wear white, cream or ivory.
Please do not wear anything other than a basic bob or ponytail.
Please do not fave [sic] a full face of makeup.
Do not record during the seramony [sic].
Do not check in on FB until instructed.
Use #[redacted] when posting all pictures.
DO NOT TALK TO THE BRIDE AT ALL.
Everyone will toast with Rémy. No acceptance [sic].
Lastly must come with gift 75$ or more or you want [sic] be admited [sic] in."
Redditors found the so-called "rules" to be ridiculous.
Over on Twitter, people also questioned the stringent set of guidelines. The email made the rounds on the platform after lawyer O.T. Walker shared a screenshot of it.
Many are fixated on the spelling — particularly the misspelling of the word "ceremony. "
—Destiny Hadassah 🌻 (@destinyhadassah) September 20, 2018
—Laura (@laurathemaker) September 19, 2018
—Louisa 🌈👭 (@LouisatheLast) September 20, 2018
—Bitch, c’mere. (@runtelldatbish) September 19, 2018
But others were troubled by the guidelines pertaining to hair and makeup.
—Seychelles_Green (@activistHistori) September 19, 2018
Some said the requests sounded reasonable.
—Miich Evangelista (@_ellemiich) September 20, 2018
—Jaime De Los Santos (@8_9x) September 20, 2018
But overall, people found the tone of the email off-putting.
—Heartbreak Alley- Coming September 30th! (@ShamekaWrites) September 20, 2018
—rayy (@__raina) September 20, 2018
—ursula (@MauiMescudi) September 20, 2018
And while this wedding faux pas is making waves, it's not the only one to catch national attention recently.
Earlier this month, a woman went viral after she threatened to delete her friends on Facebook because they wouldn't pay $3,000 to attend her destination wedding. Then, there was the woman who was angry that her African American friend didn't want to attend her wedding on a plantation. And let's not forget the bride who fired her bridesmaid in a cringe-worthy email that divided that internet.
Ain't love grand?
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