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Here's the exact email you can use to remove yourself from an endless 'reply all' thread

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We've all played the office email version of Whack-a-Mole, archiving endless "reply all" threads as they pop up again and again in our inbox.

When should we schedule the Friday meeting? Is the office closed on Monday or what? Did everyone see this article? And whose watch was left in the lobby?

"It sucks when you're stuck on an email thread of declining relevance," writes Jocelyn K. Glei in "Unsubscribe: How to kill email anxiety, avoid distractions, and get real work done." "You have nothing to add, but you can't escape."

Maybe you can.

Glei writes that escape is possible. The "most elegant" way to get these threads out of your inbox, she suggests, "is to indicate that everyone is doing such a great job talking amongst themselves that you are now superfluous." She provides this script:

"Looks like you guys have taken the reins on this conversation! Would you mind moving me to 'bcc' so that I can bow out?"

That's an email for the group. But if you have a close ally or friend on the chain, Glei writes, you can reply to them alone with "a more honest message." Like so:

"Sean — Would you mind moving me to 'bcc' when you respond? I'm waging war on inbox clutter this week. ;)"

And if you just can't manage to bow out gracefully, she writes, Gmail users (sorry, everyone else) have another option: the mute button.

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You'll find it under the "More" menu in once you open a message from your inbox, and using it means the thread is automatically archived. The thread is in your email and still searchable, but not taking up inbox space. "This function also works well for hiding forum threads gone wild and other automatic notifications that contribute to inbox clutter," Glei writes.

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Libby Kane was a personal finance expert who has reported and edited stories about money for more than 10 years. She previously held the Certified Financial Education Instructor (CFEI) certification issued by the National Financial Educators Council.Experience She has written and edited articles on everything from investing tips to model budgets and has interviewed dozens of authors, financial planners, and early retirees to share their advice, experiences, and insights with a global audience. Before joining Business Insider in 2014, she was an associate editor at LearnVest, a personal finance site to help women learn about money. Her work has appeared on sites such as MSN, AOL, Forbes, Slate, and The Street.Her team at Business Insider has tackled projects including:• Women of Means, a series about women taking control of their finances• Inside the Racial Wealth Gap, an exploration of the causes, effects, and potential solutions of the racial wealth gap in the US (finalist, Drum Award, "Editorial Campaign of the Year," 2021)• Strings Attached, a series of essays from people who have left insulated communities and how that journey affected their relationship with money• Master Your Money, a year-long guide for millennials on how to take control of their finances  (first runner up, Drum Award, "Best Use of Social Media," 2022)• The Road to Home, a comprehensive guide to buying your first house (silver award winner, National Association of Real Estate Editors, "Best Multi-Platform Package or Series – Real Estate," 2022)Libby believes in one universal truth about money: Advice is never for everyone. The best strategies, tools, and products depend on your preferences, financial situation, history with money, and goals.ExpertiseHer expertise includes:• Behavioral finance• Early retirement• Budgeting• Saving moneyEducationLibby holds a bachelor's degree from Wellesley College.Outside of personal finance, Libby enjoys reading, baking, and walking her dog.