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The science of impressing people has nothing to do with your accomplishments

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We usually think that the best way to impress someone is to rattle off a list of accomplishments: won this award, made this project a success, took a team from here to there. 

But a Stanford-Harvard study recently cited on Marginal Revolution suggests that accomplishments aren't what capture people's attention — rather, it's a person's perceived potential. 

"Compared with references to achievement (e.g., 'this person has won an award for his work'), references to potential (e.g., 'this person could win an award for his work') appear to stimulate greater interest and processing, which can translate into more favorable reactions," write authors Zakary Tormala, Jayson Jia, and Michael Norton. 

They came to these conclusions after conducting eight experiments.

In one, participants predicted the salary, scoring average, and likelihood of making the all-star team for a fictional NBA player — in one case he was fresh out of college, in another he was a five-year veteran. And guess what? The rookie got higher ratings across the board than the vet. 

potential over accomplishment graph
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In another, the experimenters ran two eight-day advertisements on Facebook for the comedian Kevin Shea. Clicking on the ad directed users to a fan page for Shea, where the user could become a fan.

In both advertisements, highlighting Shea's potential ("By this time next year, everyone could be talking about Kevin Shea") was significantly more effective than noting his achievements ("Everyone is talking about Kevin Shea"). The potential frame yielded not only more clicks, but more people signed up as fans.

What's going on here?

According to Tormala, Jia, and Norton, potential implies uncertainty. When given the right framing, many people find uncertainty appealing. 

"This uncertainty appears to be more cognitively engaging than reflecting on what is already known to be true," the authors write. 

Since you think about it more, you like it more. 

"The uncertainty surrounding potential stimulates interest and processing, which attunes people to the information available and gives it more impact," they write. "When that information is compelling ... the result is a more favorable attitude or impression."

The applications for this finding are practical: 

• When pitching yourself to an employer, talk about what you could bring to the company — after all, your resume already lists your accomplishments. 

• When making a recommendation, emphasize what could be, since it's more likely to engage the interest of recruiters, employers, and university administrators. 

Add that to the quirks that make people more impressive.

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Drake Baer was Business Insider's editor-at-large, working across the newsroom to help produce ambitious journalism. For two and a half years before that, Baer served as deputy editor, overseeing a team of 20+ reporters and editors who cover the future of work, real estate, and small business. The fast-paced team was behind some of Insider's major packages in the last few years, including a state-by-state look into unemployment during the first year of the pandemic and in-depth profiles of "niche famous" characters such as real estate media tycoon Brandon Turner and HR icon Johnny C Taylor. They shed new light on big names, like Joe Biden, America's imperfect leader. He also cultivated thesis-oriented ideas journalism, whether it be on why "'diversity' and 'inclusion' are the emptiest words in corporate America" or why it's actually a horrible time to buy a house. (No, really, it is.) Before editing, his byline as a reporter was on the masthead for Fast Company and New York Magazine, covering the many intersections of social science, business, and economics. Baer has interviewed some our time's leading minds, including philanthropist Bill Gates, FiveThirtyEight founder Nate Silver, NBA champion and investor Steph Curry, "growth mindset" psychologist Carol Dweck, the rapper Q-Tip, Nobel laureate Daniel Kahneman, and the man who gave a name to "disruptive innovation," the late Clay Christensen.Baer has published two books, the most recent being Perception: How Our Bodies Shape Our Minds, with Dennis Proffitt. In 2014, New York Times bestselling author and Wharton professor Adam Grant highlighted his first book, Everything Connects, as one of the 12 business books to read that year. He has been featured as a speaker at the Aspen Ideas Festival, presented at TedX Princeton, and moderated many panels.