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The term 'millennial' has become so controversial that an expert says many millennials actually don't identify with it

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Not all millennials identify with their generation. Mengwen Cao/Getty Images
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Not all millennials identify as millennials

That's according to Jason Dorsey, a consultant, researcher of millennials, and president of the Center for Generational Kinetics. He told Business Insider there are two types of millennials: me-llennials, who feel behind financially and professionally, and mega-llennials, who are ahead of the game.

It's this latter group that doesn't identify with the "millennial" term. "They've been working and doing normal work-related stuff, but often are not getting attention for it," Dorsey said.

Millennials are often known to be financially behind thanks to student-loan debt, rising living costs, and the fallout of the recession. But not all millennials are in this place. Some have already purchased their first home or are growing their careers; they're actually ahead of the game, Dorsey said.

He added that this group also feels they don't "match the negative stereotypes" or that they don't "fit the typical millennial meme." The distance mega-llennials feel from these stereotypes is the most talked-about part of Dorsey's sub-generations concept simply because so many millennials relate to it, he said. And it's easy to see why.

It's no surprise millennials don't want to be called millennials

The world has been quick to label millennials, and not all of those labels are positive. Millennials have been called "generation snowflake" and "The Me Me Me Generation," creating a stereotype of millennials as special, sensitive, lazy, and entitled. 

But generational expert Neil Howe said in a 2017 interview with Forbes that while this stereotype has "kernels of truth," the criticism paints a distorted picture.

"To focus just on these traits in a negative way typically leads to associated claims about millennials that have no basis in fact," he said. "And it tempts us to overlook genuine millennial strengths that will likely hugely benefit our country in the years to come."

Joel Stein also found a bigger picture when he explored the stereotype in a 2013 cover story for Time magazine. While the data indicates that the chance of narcissistic personality disorder is nearly three times as high for millennials as it is for baby boomers, millennials exhibit qualities that have greater influence in the long run, he said: They're earnest, positive, accepting of others, and optimistic.

Millennials have also destigmatized taboo topics like financial and mental health. And they've pushed hot button issues to the forefront of the national agenda, such as student-loan debt and social progress. 

It's no wonder, then, that mega-llennials feel they don't relate to the world's perception of them. 

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Hillary focuses on the intersection of youth culture and wealth, reporting on the lifestyles and economics of millennials and Gen Z. She covers trends in how these generations are living and spending and examines how the economy is shaping them and their financial behaviors She also reports on consumer spending and New York City's economy, and previously wrote about the ultrarich and personal finance at Insider before joining its economy team. Basically, she's written about money from every angle you can imagine. Inside the epicenter of America's Great Resignation: Kentuckians lay out the 4 forces driving the state's labor shortage — and explain why it's here to stay Millennial New Yorkers are ditching basements and roommates for luxury apartments at $1,000-plus discounts The world's youngest self-made billionaire hopes to power every future self-driving car with a technology that Elon Musk says is 'doomed' Tiffany and the Trumps: Insiders describe how the president's younger daughter has charted what they say is a distant relationship with her father and come to terms with having America's most divisive last name Inside the French Riviera's pandemic party problem Yachting insiders detail the rampant sexual harassment aboard million-dollar ships, where crew members are promised a glamorous lifestyle and can instead find themselves trapped at sea with no one to turn to Millennials came limping out of the Great Recession with massive student debt and crippled finances. Here's what the generation is up against if the coronavirus triggers another recession.