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Gabby Petito's family says fiancé's family should help find her if they have 'any decency left'

Gabby Petito has been missing for nearly three weeks.
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Gabby Petito's family pleaded with the parents of the missing young woman's fiancé Thursday, begging them in an open letter to help them find their daughter if they have "any decency left."

"We are writing this letter to ask you to help find our daughter. We understand you are going through a difficult time and your instinct is strong to protect your son," Petito's family said in the letter read during a New York press conference held by their attorney Richard Stafford. 

"We haven't been able to eat or sleep," the family said. "Our lives are falling apart."

The family said in the letter to Brian Laundrie's parents, Christopher and Roberta Laundrie, that they "believe you know the location of where Brian left Gabby. We beg you to tell us."

"As a parent, how could you let us go through this pain and not help us?" the letter read. "If you or your family have any decency left, please tell us where Gabby is located."

 

Brian Laundrie has refused to speak to authorities about Petito's disappearance, despite police and the family of the 22-year-old woman pleading that he help find her. Police have named him as a "person of interest" in the case. 

Petito and Brian Laundrie, 23, set out from New York on a cross-country road trip in a converted camper van on July 2, documenting their travels on social media along the way. 

According to police records, an officer in Moab, Utah, pulled their vehicle over for speeding and swerving on August 12 to find Petito crying the passenger seat.  The officers were responding to a possible domestic violence report but ultimately classified the encounter as a mental health crisis.

But on September 1, Brian Laundrie returned home to North Port, Florida with the van and without Petito, police have said. Petito's family reported her missing to New York authorities 10 days later. 

Petito's parents believe Brian Laundrie and their daughter left Salt Lake City for Grand Teton National Park in Wyoming on August 24. Police are actively searching the park for any sign of Laundrie's whereabouts, believing she may be found within its boundaries.

Stafford said at the press conference Thursday that every day that passes and Petito is not found, the family grows more "desperate."

"They're at the point where that desperation is turning to anger," Stafford said. 

The attorney confirmed that Petito and Brian Laundrie were engaged to be married, but put their wedding on hold due to the coronavirus pandemic. 

"It is my understanding they were engaged and I know they decided with the pandemic, they couldn't have a wedding or the wedding they wanted so that was put on hold, and they decided to go on their trip instead," Stafford said.

But Petito's family isn't focused on a wedding.

"Our lives are falling apart," the family wrote. "All we want is Gabby to come home. Please help us make that happen."

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Natalie is a senior reporter on Business Insider's Business News team covering the AI and data center boom.She was previously on BI's Legal Affairs team, where she handled major cases coming out of state and federal court, as well as bankruptcy. Her coverage often focused on stories at the intersection of law, business, politics, and technology. Natalie has covered Donald Trump’s criminal and civil cases, the wave of lawsuits against the second Trump administration, the indictment and criminal trial of Sean “Diddy” Combs, the shooting death of UnitedHealthcare CEO Brian Thompson, and the legal battles facing Elon Musk and his companies. Natalie came to Business Insider in June 2021 as a breaking news reporter, focusing on the most interesting angles on the day's trending news. Natalie largely drove BI’s coverage around the fatal “Rust” shooting involving Alec Baldwin and the disappearance and murder of Gabby Petito.Prior to joining BI, Natalie worked for the New York Post, the New York Daily News, and The Brooklyn Paper. She has an extensive background covering crime and courts. During her more than 12-year journalism career, she did a stint covering the police beat out of the New York Police Department's headquarters. Natalie, a Brooklyn native, graduated from Brooklyn College in 2012 with a degree in journalism.