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3 mistakes you're probably making with your dining room decor, according to an interior stylist

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For most people, the dining room is one of the most aesthetic rooms in their homes.

It's the place where people gather for important events, so it's natural to want it to look good. But it's also easy to make missteps as you put your dining room together, from overspending to overfilling it with decor.

Kiva Brent, an interior stylist and content creator, spoke to Business Insider about the most common mistakes people make when decorating their dining rooms.

The table needs an 'anchor'

Brent said of one of the most common mistakes people make in their dining rooms is "failing to anchor the dining table."

According to Brent, it's a good idea to put a vase or candle sticks on your dining room table to help draw the eye to it. But the decor doesn't always stand out the way people intend it to.

"People put decor on the table, but it's either the same color or it's glass and it really blends right in," she said. "So you barely notice that you decorated it. That happens all the time."

Brent recommends putting your decor on top of a runner or a tray to make it stand out, giving the room a center of gravity. She's partial to trays, as they're more convenient to move.

A dining room with a table with flowers on it.
The table decor should stand out.  Carlina Teteris/Getty Images

"If you're having a big party, instead of having to move each decorative accent, everything's on the tray," she said. "You just pick it up, put it on the floor, or put it somewhere else and keep it moving."

Your buffet table is probably too full

Many people have buffet tables in their dining rooms, both to act as a place to serve food and for decor.

But Brent said she often finds that people lose sight of the function of buffet tables, putting too many knickknacks and decor items on them.

"I feel like they overstyle them, and then when you're actually eating, you're like, 'I don't have anywhere for food or the servewear,'" she said. "It's so common because we just want it to look good, but then we're like, 'Oh my gosh, I'm burning my hands with this pie.'"

A dining room with a table and a buffet table.
The buffet table shouldn't be overcrowded.  John Keeble/Getty Images

Brent recommends only decorating two-thirds of the buffet table to ensure it's as functional as it is decorative.

"Leave a third of it open so that you have a practical place to put things on it," she said.

And if you find yourself buying too much decor generally, Brent says "delaying gratification" can help you cut back on buying knickknacks you don't need.

"I'll go shopping and instead of buying anything, I say to myself, 'If I remember that I want this in seven days, I can come back and get it,'" she said. "Delaying gratification is really, really important."

You don't need to splurge on your dining room chairs

Your table and its accompanying chairs are typically the focal point of your dining room, so it makes sense for them to have aesthetic appeal. But Brent said it's probably not worth it to splurge on your dining room chairs if you don't use your dining room much.

"I think people spend a lot of money on dining chairs," Brent said.

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You don't have to splurge on chairs.  imaginima/Getty Images

"When I work with clients, that's something that's always a real high-ticket item, and in reality, most of us either eat at the kitchen island or in front of the TV," she said. "And there's nothing wrong with either of those things."

Because you probably won't use them daily, Brent doesn't advise spending a lot on your dining room chairs.

"Unless you have a big family and you sit there all the time, save on those chairs, and then actually spend more money on the other seating in your home," Brent added.

She also said that there are plenty of chair options at an affordable price point if you know where to look.

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Samantha Grindell Pettyjohn is a Senior Lifestyle Reporter at Business Insider with more than eight years of experience in the lifestyle space.At Business Insider, Samantha's coverage focuses on unique living situations, interior design, celebrity style, and books. Her work includes features on multigenerational living and one-of-a-kind houses, timely articles on celebrity fashion, live coverage of award shows and pageants, and fun pieces about popular book series. Samantha also loves reporting on celebrities on her beats, from HGTV stars Christina Haack and Tarek El Moussa to authors such as Sarah J. Maas and Rebecca Yarros.Samantha appeared on Scripps News and CBS in 2022 to discuss the royal family, and in 2023, she won an Anthem Award for her work on Business Insider's package "Better Me."Samantha received her B.A. in English from Birmingham-Southern College in 2017, graduating Summa Cum Laude. She later earned her M.S. in Publishing from New York University in 2019. Samantha was previously a staff writer at Romper, and her writing has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Mic, and Oprah.com. Today, Samantha lives in Atlanta with her husband and dog.Email her at sgrindell@jkmperu.com and follow her on X.